Mrs May was always a remainer who had no intention of getting us out.
Was it Tusk who said she had always been loyal and respectful to the EU?
Her "deal" written for her by Merkel in German has been described as the sort of surrender agreement signed by a country defeated in war.
Now Johnson has polished her turd and wrapped it his annex mainly dealing with the Irish problem (invented by the EU to cause trouble and delay) and has tried to sneak it past a tired and desperate parliament. I thought I could trust him. His betrayal is greater than May's.
The feelings of despair betrayal disappointment disgust powerlessness etc have adversely affected my health. I am in a private battle now to regain any enthusiasm for anything. A pox on all of them.
I long for the Tories to be humiliated and for Labour to be destroyed. And as for that awful Lib-Undem party I cannot find adequate words.
The only tiny glimmer of hope, for the future of the country and politics, in my mind is an astonishing vote for Brexit. They will have my vote.

Join the Tory party, change it from within; a sort of reverse Gramsci-ism.
I think it is already happening; look at the Tory MPs not standing. They know that their inherent LibDem views have been rejected. Johnson is nothing if not an able politician...he realises the way the wind is blowing. After all, he had the nous to sack the twenty one who felt they were so far above the fray that they were immune. Even Hammond has realised the game is up..

Peter Hitchens has been of the opinion for a number of years that as long as the tory party exists a truly pro British party cannot arise. I'm coming round to this view.

I last voted tory in 1992, not with any particular enthusiasm but to prevent labour getting in. I have voted UKIP and in 97 voted for the referendum party.

I think the fact that UKIP got votes but no seats kept it - for want of a better expression- "pure" in that it wasn't tainted by the inevitable squalor of actual "office". For that reason I wouldn't see a brexit party vote as wasted, particularly - especially - if they get no actual seats.

Why do people see the EU as some sort of remorseless monolith, bulldozing all before it?

It's basically done, an economic catastrophe, wrapped in a political lunatic asylum. About as cohesive and unified as Bonaparte's grand armee in 1812.

Who has actually wasted the last four years? What will the quislings achieve? Any EU "victory" will be phyrric and certainly won't last.

For four years, the basic core of the "project" - the claim of inevitability - has been exposed as a sham. The lunatic political wrapping is coming off the economic catastrophe.

I know what I want to see. I just don't see how to vote to get it.

The festering pustule that is Amber Rudd is the MP where I am and I'm not sure if there will a brexit party candidate. I don't yet know who the tories will put up but it is a leave constituency.

Looks like tory (and I will be holding my nose) if whoever has some leave credentials. Otherwise?

Maybe a hung parliament, but how does one vote "tactically" for that. I suspect that is what scares the EU most, which makes it sound good to me.

In a strange sense it's slightly comforting to see that people with finer brains than mine are as frustrated, dismayed and uncertain as I.

I promised myself in 2017 that if the Conservatives delivered a Brexit in name only I would certainly never vote for them again. I exchanged correspondence with my MP - a capable lady, Conservative, and a committed Brexiteer but that was unsatisfactory. No commitments were detailed by her; just an undertaking to "consider the alternatives at each stage" - so matters of principle such as the preservation of democracy, the will of the people and extracting ourselves from the Fascists of the EU were early casualties.

Then along came the Brexit Party. Salvation! (?) I admire greatly what Farage has achieved even while not liking some of his excesses, but here was a radical alternative to betrayal by the mainstream parties.

And so we come to the last gasp of 2019, betrayed, trussed, and eviscerated by our own political representatives. Delivered, helpless, to what's effectively the Fourth Reich - and the first which has won. In the last few days I've despaired of what might come about, and become angry reading the terms of the Ghost of May's Johnsonised WA. It's a scandal that in delivering our sovereignty to the EU, these people have simultaneously managed to reduce to nil any influence or power we might have had. It's as good an example of treason as I've ever seen.

Eventually I've concluded, as Peter J North has, that with the Brexit Party suffering voter fatigue and its share of the polls declining, that under FPTP it's capable of getting a good many votes but not very many seats at all. As Dan Hannan put it eloquently in the Telegraph on Saturday, the only thing driving TBP now is that they want no deal (yes! Me too!) but will be too small a presence in Parliament to deliver it and just large enough to - forgive me - irritate the tits off the wider public who just want an end to this whole matter.

So, for me, the answer has become to vote Conservative. Voting any other in my constituency would be a waste anyway although it's one of the most pro-Brexit. If the Conservatives get an absolute majority we'll get the only sort of Brexit that's going to happen - as pathetic an excuse for one as it may be. I will not then vote Conservative again and may indeed simply not vote at all in future, since the process is irrevocably tainted. I will be holding my nose firmly while I mark my ballot and it will mark only my view that all alternatives to the Conservatives are unspeakably bad and determined to ruin my country, while the Conservatives are merely appalling. I will never forgive them.

Sorry to rattle on at such length, but I wish you well in finding your own resolution to the issue.

You can’t vote Labour. That would be a betrayal to your Jewish friends and colleagues. Also, the economic misery it would bring would haunt you.
The Lib Dems, (neither Liberal nor Democratic) would be against Brexit and democracy. Their leader called for a referendum in 2008 but now says she wouldn’t respect a vote to Leave in a second referendum..
The Conservatives can’t help appeasing people who will never vote for them. No fracking, citizens’ assemblies, no deal off the table etc. They have some good people like JRM and Baker, but as you say, they’ll sell us out.
Just leaves the Brexit party really. You said you’d supported them anyway. Take a look at the candidate they’re putting up in your constituency. It may be a wasted vote, but you’ve kept to your principles.
Ultimately, it’s the demographics that have done for us.

It looks like you are split between tories and brexit party, so let's put it this way - you vote tory (or any of the main parties for that matter) and we'll be staying in anyway, so to hell with it all, its the brexit party for me, win or lose because they are the only ones who will get us out. I also believe that the brexit party has a lot more support than the media wants to admit.